I was wondering whether I should write my year-in-review in a similar format like last year. However this year is different from last year as it wasn’t occupied with many interesting events. Instead it was overwhelmed by one single event (or person ;) which unraveled over a period of 8 months and culminating in


Lucas Niam Jun Kai
Yeah, the highlight of this year (and definitely for the rest of my life) is that I’m a father. Hmmn, father still sounds old or religious to me. I still haven’t got used to that title which I usually used to refer to my own father and our Father and Father FA, Father Henry, Father Fabian…
Lucas gave hint of his arrival way back in January and officially arrived on Merdeka Day – a patriotic baby you can say.
Everyone would agree that all babies are cute, but I never knew that they can be so cute, like my Cute Cute. He’s so cute that even when he cries he is cute! You will know the meaning of cute when you have your own kids J
On the serious side, having a baby taught me a deeper understanding of love. Unconditional love. No matter how much trouble they bring you, you’ll still love them. Definitely not something that you can find in 99% of the man-woman relationship but definitely something that is special to parental love. It’s a cliché, but I definitely understand much better know how much my parents toiled for me.
So pretty much from September onwards all I did is baby-sitting, a human-transporting, nappy changing and folding, feeding bla bla bla... and oh yeah Island Hospital is the most frequented place for the year hehe.
Time is already zooming by every single second and having a baby makes me realize how precious time is. The plus side it gives me pressure to be more efficient and less procrastination.
Other notable event this year
- Ran another full marathon – KLIM’08 at the end of March. Hopefully not my last.
and also did the 26K Malakoff run in August
- Bought Swedish beauty in April

- Only vacation of the year – Cameron Highlands revisited, after 20+ years

- Work-wise, it’s been a crazy busy and complicated year. After a few false starts (read: cancelled projects), we finally had a real one – with a lot of dependencies, a lot of demand (hopefully) and little resources. Most of all it’s complicated in the sense that I’ve to deal with so many different people. How did I fare so far? I’m still alive J
- Turned down a job oversea in October, from a very caring HR and Hiring Manager because I would like to complete my current project (which will last till 2010) as I relish the challenges, complexity and learning – hopefully without regret in the coming years
Other things that I must say for this year, not about myself but about my country and the world in general:
- Global economic meltdown
o Human race needs this. Otherwise we will continue our acceleration towards destruction. At least it puts a brake on the unbridled demand for natural resources. Everything is over-inflated. Like the salary of those in Goldman Sachs. Time for reset
- The US economic meltdown
o For too long they have been living above their means, productivity and innovation are not keeping up with salary. Financial derivatives are not innovation. It doesn’t do anything good for the human race.
- Politics in Malaysia
o The old system and policy has obviously failed – NEP.
o Anti-ISA: any different from the government crackdown in Burma?
o Ketuanan Melayu – no doubt the pendatang have to give up something to gain something but the real Tuan is God, not any particular race. Science has proven that we are all migrant from Africa. If it’s just a question of who arrived first then look, the Chinese were the first to reach America in 1421. It’s not Malay vs. Chinese vs. Indian, it’s Malaysian vs. China vs. India. Stop being a katak di bawah tempurung. The water is already slowly being boiled from outside.
o Time to look beyond not only individual or communal gain or short term gain. The usage of English in the teaching of Math and Science. I’m all for it. Maybe because I didn’t go to SRJK. But it doesn’t matter – just put a kid from any SRJK into the Singapore Asian Scholarship test and you will know how important English is. I know, cause I’ve been thru that
o The executive shall not be the politicians – learn from the US. All I heard from the Minister of HR is “we’ll monitor the retrenchment from a district to state to national level, on a weekly basis”. He made it sound like he’s working so hard. Yeah but what good can monitoring do?
That's about it for this year, see you again next year, and hopefully the world will be a better place next year - and that can only happen if we all become better people - and I wish all of us success in that in 2009
P/S: Can the Israelites and Palestinians stop fighting please?










